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Rick Nicholls posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 28, 2024
Our sincerest condolences to you Marg and family. Linda and I were shocked to hear the news of John's passing. I have many fond memories of us as kids getting together on Sunday down on Mill street. I know from talking to John how proud he was of Andrew and Alison. He was a very good man who will be missed by all who knew him. Rest in peace John.
Rick and Linda Nicholls
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Saturday, February 24, 2024
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Josef Neubauer donated to Lakeridge Health Foundation
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
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Joyce and David Thompson donated to Lakeridge Health Foundation
Sunday, February 18, 2024
We are sending our deepest sympathy to the whole family. John was an amazing principal and wonderful person. It was a pleasure to work with him over the years. We will be keeping you all in our prayers.
Joyce and David
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Sunday, February 18, 2024
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Anne Venning posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Marg & Family,
Words cannot express our deepest sympathies to you all.
Our cousin John was a kind, caring, thoughtful and funny fella. We were so fortunate to have him in our lives.
Wayne and I have many wonderful memories of times spent together over the years.
May your many happy memories bring you comfort in the days ahead. He was truly “one of the good guys”
Love & hugs,
Wayne & Anne
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Emily Dy Pac planted a tree in memory of John Nicholls
Saturday, February 17, 2024
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Utmost sympathy for the loss of John .An exceptional man, caring, compassionate and just a very kind man. He will be greatly missed. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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joanne chebry posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
I was lucky enough to work with John at two different schools throughout my teaching career. He was a great person, with a great sense of humour. I have many fond memories of John throughout the years. Gone but not forgotten... Rest In Peace, John.
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Liz Duval (Snow) posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
I had the good fortune of meeting John where he was my Principal for two wonderful years at St Theresa Catholic school in Whitby. He had a huge influence on my career. John was a true gentleman, always approachable and forever pleasant and welcoming. John motivated and encouraged me to become an educator at York University and subsequently his colleague as Principal.
Marg, I extend my condolences to you, your family and all those lives he touched. xo
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Desmond and Ronnie Cuddy posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Our sincerest condolences go out to you Marg and family. I had the pleasure of working with John at St.Bernard’s where he was always ready with a big smile and warm heart. I met him a number of times after retirement at the Generals games and most recently walking along the Harmony Creek Trail with his good friend Jerry.
May God’s blessings be with you always.
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Wayne Hazelton posted a condolence
Thursday, February 15, 2024
To Marg and Family,
The world has lost a special man. A loyal friend that cannot be replaced but will be remembered always.
I will remember John as a good man who brought joy to all who knew him. He was kind, witty and had a wonderful sense of humour, the kind of person people wanted to be around.
We spent many hours together at the gym, golfing, walking, and solving all the world’s problems at Tim Hortons.
Rest in peace John – your work here is finished and by any standard- a job well done.
My sincere condolences go out to Marg and all of John’s family. May his memory be a blessing.
Wayne Hazelton
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Anne Brady donated to Lakeridge Health Foundation
Wednesday, February 14, 2024
With deepest sympathy to you and your family,
Anne Brady
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Sunday, February 11, 2024
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Our deepest sympathy to Marg and the Nicholls family.
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Catherine (Cathy) McKeown posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 7, 2024
My memories of my cousin John are all of a lovely, kind and generous man who loved his wife and family above all - even above golf. He was the best of brothers to Nancy and Ruth and much loved in return. I see him now, moving wheelchairs around, smiling and happy and taking care of the girls. He will be missed in ways I can only imagine.
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Christine Godfrey posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 6, 2024
I will miss John’s wit, kindness and thoughtfulness I did not get to see him through the years as much as I would like. Being so far away visits were difficult but always in my thoughts especially during his illness and thanks to his sisters who kept me posted
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Jim Simpson posted a condolence
Sunday, February 4, 2024
I always looked forward to our Friday morning golf game. Our shared love of the Maple Leafs and music always made for some interesting conversation. We may have even hit the odd good shot. Followed by a bowl of soup on the patio it was always a great day.
Rest in peace my friend.
Jim Simpson
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Wendy (Madeline) Welling posted a condolence
Sunday, February 4, 2024
Dear Marg and Family
The first thing you notice about my cousin John is
his smile , not a big grin , but a warm smile that reflected his calm , thoughtful personality .
He was a devoted Son , Brother , Husband , Father , Grandfather and friend . He touched many other people , too many to list and he always treated everyone with kindness and respect .
I know it sounds cliché , but , John Nicholls was one in a million .
He will be missed .
Wendy
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Barry and Teresa Read posted a condolence
Thursday, February 1, 2024
Dear Marg, Andrew and Alison.
We are heartbroken to learn of John’s passing. We were blessed to have had the Nicholls as next door neighbours for over 20 years. Over that time there were many conversations about our families, neighbourhood events and for John and Barry, many chats about sports and especially golf. John was a devoted family man and a true gentleman.
He will be dearly missed by all who had the good fortune to meet and know him. May he Rest in Peace.
Barry, Teresa, Kendra and Mark Read
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Teresa Simmons posted a condolence
Thursday, February 1, 2024
John was the best of human beings and principals. He always was kind, just and supportive of his students and school community. His empathy and commitment had no limits . Prayers for his family and his many many friends .
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Mike Nash posted a condolence
Thursday, February 1, 2024
Mike Nash
John was not only a gentleman but a gentle man who treated people with dignity and compassion in his leadership and administrative roles, and in his private life. He had a strength of intellect and character that made him successful in all his endeavors.
I was lucky to work alongside John as his V.P. at St. Theresa's and to do a few LTO stints with him at St. Luke's after retirement. I also was lucky to get to know his great kids, Andrew and Alison, while V.P. at St. Christopher.
John really valued his many friends and was loyal to them right to the end.
We will miss his wry smile, easy laugh and calm demeanor.
God bless.
Mike and Esther.
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Mary Simpson posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
Dear Marg and family,
Please accept my condolences .
John was a lovely person, a true gentleman. I always enjoyed working with him at DCDSB. Twenty one years ago John approached me with the idea of starting a Book Club. It was a wonderful opportunity to discuss books, learn about new authors, argue viewpoints, laugh and drink fine wine. I will miss John very much.
Mary Simpson
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Christine planted a tree in memory of John Nicholls
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
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Helen Lanthier posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
I am so grateful to have worked with John at St. Bernard Catholic School. He was supportive, kind, and always willing to share his expertise and experience with me as a first-time Vice-Principal. He very much influenced who I became as a Principal, and was not only a colleague, but a friend. I have lovely memories of when he and Marg came to visit us in our new home in Nova Scotia.
My condolences go out to his family, and to all of those whose lives were touched by his presence.
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Joe Visconti posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
Please accept my sincere condolences to the Nicholls family and deepest sympathy for the passing of John. In my experience, John was a consummate professional, a Principal who was dedicated to his staff and students and community and who lived his life reflecting the gospel values. God Bless, John.
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george hurst donated to Lakeridge Health Foundation
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
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Just like to wish my condolences. John use to play golf every Sunday the same time we went out. He was a kind,happy Gentle soul.
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Patrick and Gloria MacKinnon posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
It is very difficult to put into words the feelings we have over the lose of such a good, good friend. Both Gloria and I had the privilege of working with John. There are too many cherished memories to elaborate on them all. As many have already stated...he was a well respected man, well read, kind, loyal a good sense of humor and had many more talents. I will always remember the great times we had at St. Isaac Jogues when I was principal and John was my VP. Our close friendship continued over the many years with the Board. We are truly blessed to have had John in our lives. We will remember him always. Pat and Gloria MacKinnon
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Rob McLaren posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
ROB & GERI MCLAREN
To Marg, Andrew and Alison:
Words are difficult to write at this time. Over 40 years ago at Sir Albert Love I met John and am thankful I did in so many ways. Not only a great friend to me, but to so many people. Packed in the memory suitcase are terrific outings with John and the breakfast club to Argo & Marlies games, and places further along the route! Great times were always enjoyed with John and Marg by Geri and I. Unpacking these memories will continue to be a joy.
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Luke Brown posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
Was privileged to call John a friend....so many good memories golfing on Saturday mornings with "Nick", John Hamilton and Vince Serra. John's devotion to the Toronto Maple Leafs was second to none. His smile and warm personality will be sorely missed. Rest in Peace John
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Joanne Neate posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
Dear Marg and family,
We were sad to hear of John’s passing. My memories are of his quiet presence….he was a kind and thoughtful gentleman.
Sending warmth and comfort during this difficult time.
Joanne and John Neate
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Vince Serra posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
Marg and Family
I am very saddened to hear of my long time friend of over 65 years passing.
I have so many fond memories of our early school days, playing golf and going out to watch his beloved Leafs together.
I will always remember Nick as a real good person and a long time friend.
Our deepest sympathy n prayers are with you.
Vince Serra
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Dave Andrews posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
To Marg and family,
I have known Nick for every one of those years at the Oshawa Golf Club and had such a great time with him here and also in Florida. I will miss him and remember him always. My deepest sympathies.
Dave Andrews
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Timothy OConnell posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
We met 50 years ago: 50 years of jokes, laughter, ,philosophising , learning, sharing, mayhem and most of all good good company.
Thank you for being our friend.
Angela and Tim
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Eric Svistunovs planted a tree in memory of John Nicholls
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
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Doug & Julie Dunn posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
We were profoundly saddened by the news of John's passing. As the loving "Grandpa John" to our shared grandchildren Abby and Henry, we felt truly blessed to have his presence in their young lives. We will remember his selfless devotion to his family as an extraordinary example to all who knew him. We send our deepest sympathy to Marg and the Nicholls family.
Doug & Julie Dunn
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Breen O'Connor posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
Dear Marg and Family, we are very sad to hear of your loss. John was, indeed, well respected and held in high regard by all. We knew him as a friend and colleague for several years at the Durham Catholic School Board. It was always a pleasure to spend time with John. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Breen and Joan O'Connor
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Joseph Szekeres posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
Ruth, Nancy, Marg and family.
May God's love and peace be with all of you right now in your sorrow as you slowly move forward. I'll always remember how kind John was to me as I learned so much about teaching in my first year at Sir Albert Love. Our cherished memories of loved ones will always last forever.
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Monday, January 29, 2024
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Monday, January 29, 2024
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Donna Quinn posted a condolence
Monday, January 29, 2024
I remember the stormy winter night when I first met John Nichols. He drove over in blizzard conditions to St Matthews (from St Bernard's) to interview me for a teaching position at the new Whitby school. He was very surprised that I was still there, waiting near the door, by the time he arrived - rather late for our scheduled appointment. He said that I should have gone home long ago... even though he made the journey just in case I hadn't. I am glad I waited and I am glad he made the journey.
After making us cups of hot herbal tea just to warm him up, we sat down for the interview with the hope that the snow would let up while we talked. It was a mix of pedagogy and vision, goals and hopes. We talked about the art I had created on my resume envelope and the music I had chosen to play softly in the background. He shared his vision for the new school community and hoped that I would join him in making it happen. Although over the years, we didn't always agree on everything, I can honestly say that John was consistently gracious, kind, and funny. But more... he was a highly intelligent person with a philosopher's heart.
My fondest memory is the wonderful shade of red he would turn when riled or when he laughed too hard. He set a new standard for all of us, the day he kicked my class pet hamster - which was roaming around on the floor in a plastic exercise ball - forcefully across the room thinking it was a soccer ball. The hamster was fine but the razzing lasted for weeks. He took it in good spirit.
John, you will be remembered as a great listener, a fair, supportive and just school leader, and a character who kept us laughing. I wish you godspeed and I know the angels are welcoming you home.
Marg and family, you are in my heart, my thoughts and prayers. My deepest condolences to all.
Donna Quinn
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Kathleen Pezzarello posted a condolence
Monday, January 29, 2024
John was greatly admired and was held in high esteem by many people. My husband Joe among them. He loved playing basketball with him and always referred to him as a perfect gentleman. I remember being part of his baby shower at St Francis de Sales School in Ajax. John was a good sport as he sat there and suffered through all the shenanigans of a room filled with mostly women. He dawned the ceremonially decorated hat and enjoyed a good laugh. He will be missed. Ruth, prayers are with you and the family to help you through the upcoming horror of sadness.
Kathleen Pezzarello
